Wednesday, 26 December 2012
Not perfect, no love??
Love is not about being perfectly beauty to someone you love.
Love is more about being who you are, being honest of how you feel and what your truth opinions about certain things.
You don’t have to push yourself so hard to be so perfectly beautiful like Miss Universe or perfectly cute like Barbie dolls just because to make someone you love responds to accept your love.
My Marketing lecturer always reminds me that “beauty is very subjective my dear…”. Well, thanks to him to make me realized that again.
Let’s back to the point; most of the times we don’t need such stupid reasons like beauty or cuteness to fall in love with someone.
Outer beauty is just a surface value of someone.
As the time passed, the outer beauty will fade and what left is just the eternal inner beauty.
So why you bother so much, torture yourself just to look perfectly beautiful outside. But then, that doesn’t mean that you need to look shabby or messy.
What I mean here is just be yourself, be who you are, use your own style; style that make you comfort with.
You don’t have to look so exaggerate and desperate to get someone you love.
If the person really loves you, you just don’t need to make him.
And, if he loves you in return, start your honest love journey.
Just tell him what you like and what you hate.
Don’t just simply agree with anything he said if you know that you never agree with it for your entire life.
Just tell your opinions even if the opinions will object his opinions.
It is okay to argue certain important things sometimes because that what make both of you know each other deeply indeed.
Sometimes the differences between the couple make them more appreciating each other. So, don’t be afraid to stand your principle on certain things just because your love one does not agree with it.
Both of you might use both of your opinion or principle to share with each other and know each other well.
As you started to know your couple, you’ll know why he has such opinion that is far difference of yours and both of you will start to respect each other view.
~honest opinion from miss sunshine~
yeah!i love ur advice miss sunshine
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